I don’t do research or just simply search for something destructive. Cause my life so much full of something that i doesn’t know yet. Too precious to taking care of people thinking mostly in negativity verbs. And I won’t let my self to refused all things about thinking of that. Just say that that my tips to control my self never thinking back negativity.

Too much transformation in people life. Everything heck happen to our life, just make sure that you taking full of responsibility. And no one doesn’t know and can’t rate you low. So much hatred happen lately because of social standard that you live in. People just forget that you have your own life to live. In order you doesn’t disturb and disadvantageous people in personal tho, you good and fine.

Mostly i’m thinking why people can’t live with purity constructive themselves and respect for the others? Like who are you rightful to judge someone you doesn’t know? Even you’re people closed, you not justified to do that. One thing you can do is give them constructive suggestions. Not suddenly judging and spread hatred. People, still human have heart inside. It can hurt by just one word.

Like stop being judge people especially in their personal life. If you so much care, ask them and then give them some suggestion. If you stop or continuing your judging, you get nothing except an other hatred. Maybe quote from Pramoedya can related with this situation, “Be fair since your mind.”